What Women don't understand?

That failure isn't an option for men. You fail, you are most likely dead is the hardwiring. Women don't work with this much pressure. The pressure to deliver is much higher for men. 

Thats why hacking hurts so much. It emasculates you, makes you feel pathetic and weak. Women can't experience these things. Fuckers can make a cute face, charm someone, and get away with any crime. You don't feel like a man. Forever, at the mercy of hackers. No one wants to be at the mercy of others.