The Sun and Wind

Once upon a time there was a bet between sun and the wind. Who can remove the man's jacket. 

The tighter the wind blew, the tighter the man clenched the jacket. Wind was unable to remove it. Sun comes and smiles. The man took off the jacket. 

People who are trying to change me are like wind. I will not change. The sun thing also won't work with me but you have a better chance of getting me to change.